Importance Of Words

Importance Of Words

In today’s highly stressed world there is very little time to relax. People have overbearing schedules and are trying hard to find time for themselves. In such a highly stressed environment, it is natural that people lose their temper.  Frustration and anger are taking its toll, which results in many using wrong words ignorantly. Many of us think that even if we say something wrong it is fine and nothing is going to happen. Research has indicated the power of words. Any wrong words spoken on people’s life always affect their lives. In this article, we talk about the Importance Of Words.

The Bible clearly says that “ Death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof “. In short whatever you say and declare in your life or in the lives of others will happen. Therefore it is very important to choose your words wisely and carefully. Many times we are too stressed and emotional and regret saying things in the heat of the moment.

Importance Of Words.

Some of the important things to be kept in mind while speaking positively are listed below :

Choose your words wisely and correctly.

Many a time we start our talk negatively. If anyone asks you how you are? you are quick to tell that person about your problems and misfortunes. In short, when we complain about our circumstances, we are actually encouraging and putting those negative words into reality.

Many years ago a research was conducted on the power of words. The results were very surprising. People who complain that they always get flu when winter sets in actually got flu, just because they said it. 

In another case, a lady said that her husband always used to use curseful words like “ How can you have guts to say that”. And eventually, that lady was diagnosed with a “guts problem “, which was incurable.

Many people easily use words like unlucky, unsuccessful, fat, miserable, foolish etc in their day to day life. But it is proved that these words cause harm which cannot be reversed.

In short, be positive and use proper and correct language to express your situation. For e.g Instead of saying I am always unsuccessful, you can say that I will keep trying till I reach my goal. My steps may be small, but one day I am sure to reach my goal.

Motivate yourself by speaking positively.

It is important to self-motivate yourself. Instead of saying you are shy, lazy or an introvert, start reassuring yourself by saying that you are a positive, hardworking and confident person. It is important to know that every word you speak has tremendous power to build or destroy your life. It is therefore wise to line up your thoughts and words positively to get success in life.

Control your emotions and your mouth.

Most of the time we complain when we are anxious, hurt or resentful. These emotional upheavals lead to hateful and wrong words being spoken. One of the first things to do is to control your mouth when you are upset. Always think what you are going to say and its logical impact. Are your words going to increase bitterness and strife or are they going to increase the problem? Choose words wisely, lovingly and consciously. It is important to speak from a position of love for yourself and for others. Your words portray you, so use them wisely.

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Always live a life of gratitude and thankfulness.

People who are grateful and thankful will always speak kindly. It is not that things are good in their life but they choose to be positive and speak wisely. Encourage a lifestyle of gratitude and thankfulness wherein you avoid strife, bitterness, and gossip. Once you keep away from negative things, you will consciously get into the habit of being around positive people and talking positively.

Discipline yourself into speaking wisely.

Words have great power to humble, humiliate, hurt and harm but at the same time kind words can be encouraging, inspiring and motivating. Choose words which are mindful of others. We must make an effort to discipline ourselves to speak kindly and with compassion, no matter what the circumstances look like. Though it is a difficult thing, yet if you are disciplined then you will cultivate positive speaking in your lifestyle.

Speaking positively helps to relieve stress and gives you inner peace.

It is important to know that when you consciously keep speaking good and doing good, it gives you inner peace. A peace that surpasses all understanding guards your heart. You know that you have behaved in a way that God would have liked you to behave. It eliminates stress from your life.

Stay away from fear and words that initiate fear.

Fear is the opposite of faith. The thought of fear gives rise to negative thoughts, leading to fearful statements which over a period of time become reality. It important to spend time in solitude and prayer. In my case spending time in prayer and reading bible verses has helped me to stay positive in many challenging situations. Once you are strong in your faith then you tend to speak positive things into your life. I have seen many people with terminal illness overcome their illness by affirming and speaking wise and healing verses from the bible. These positive affirmations help them get healed much faster.

Finally, we have a choice to make – the choice is to speak positive and wise words which will help in prospering us and keeping us blessed. Though not an easy task, it’s a conscious decision that you can make to lead a happy and positive life.

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Please read our earlier article Think and Speak Positively to impact your life

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